Don't Hate Me Because I'm Beautiful-A Rant

I'm 30 years old about to be 31 on May 25. It took me a long time to realize that I am beautiful. Not because of my physical attributes (Even though I ain't bad to look at, if I do say so myself), But because I'm a good person, and I'm good to people. You are going to have Haters, whether you are doing good or bad, somebody always has something negative to say. You are going to have people that hate you for your youth, your outgoing personality, your job,your car, your house, your life and even if you are actually an attractive person. Just tell them like this pastor said  "F U"! It's not the "F U" that most people think. He meant "I FORGIVE YOU". So forgive these people and move on, they are the ones that have the problems or the self esteem issues not you. However if you do, here are some ways to build your self esteem: You need to like yourself first before anyone else can like you.

•  ALWAYS SMILE AND STAND UP STRAIGHT WITH YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH (Don't ever let the Haters see you down, they thrive on your unhappiness)
• Focus on your achievements and even if you failed try to work out what you did right and how you could succeed next time.
•  Remember that these people do not pay your bills, so who cares what the think? 
•  I advise you not to be too competitive or compare yourself with others. Be yourself and accept that life is not a race against others but your self confidence depends on you and your personal wants and needs.
• STOP PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN!!
• Dress sharp ( Do people even say "sharp" anymore, anyway you know what I mean).
• Do your hair,get a haircut, a shave, slap on a wig, or get some weave.
• Now, this is a hard one...Refuse to engage in backstabbing gossip and make an effort to compliment those around you. In the process, you’ll become well liked and build self confidence. By looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself.
• Speak up, you are not a rug!
• Last but not least and I'm talking to myself also, Get your Butt to a Gym!