What about your Friends?

I've met quite a few people in my life that I can truly call "friend", most people fall into that "associate" category. Here are the differences between "Friends"and "Associates". Check it out and you decide who you are dealing with...

Qualities to look for in :FRIENDS

1. Reliability-You can call them (almost) anytime to talk, get a ride or just hang out.
2. Generosity-Friends that are not stingy with their money or time.
3. Care and Interest-It's no all about them, they care about your Bday,show concern during tough times
4. Humility-Able to say "I'm sorry", or "I forgive you".
5. Sense of Humor-Able to take a joke.
6. Similar Morals-Make sure you both agree not to cross the line
7. Similar Interest-Even though opposites attract, it would be nice to have something in common.
8. Flexibility-an open mind
9. Respect-Does not put you down, but puts you in check...respectfully.
10. and of course have FUN!!-builds friendships that last a lifetime.

ASSOCIATES

1. Feels no responsibility for you and is unconcerned about you.
2. An associate is not trying to help you out. In fact, they may hide opportunities from you, because they don't want you to be more successful than them. A friend is your cheerleader.
3.  If you are shy about sharing the personal details of your life with them, they are probably more associate than friend.
4. Those who aren’t true friends may take your kindness for weakness. If you give of your time and treasures and never get anything in return, you are probably dealing with an associate and not a real friend.